Family Constellation
Family constellation, also known as Systemic Constellation, is a kind of brief therapy, where you can objectively perceive the bonds you have with your family. From there you can resolve conflicts and entanglements, based on the perception of what arises, and using healing phrases that affect everyone involved. It happens without having to have any confrontation or face-to-face conversation.
THE POWER OF FAMILY CONSTELLATION
During the process it is possible to access subconscious loyalties, spoken or mental promises you made to someone, which can keep you trapped and unable to act with freedom.
Family or Systemic constellation was developed by Hellinger in the nineties, based on his perception of family hierarchy, the need that everyone has to belong and in what he named “Orders of love”.
He believed we live in a morphogenetic field, where all information is accessible and can be captured by our minds, in the perspective of a non-linear time. It is the same idea as in the Jung’s collective unconscious, according to which all information that exists is common to mankind.
That is why the sessions are made using strangers to represent the consultant and his family in face-to-face group sessions.
For online sessions, we use dolls or any objects that can represent all those involved. When you see yourself and your system from the outside, your awareness broadens and profound healing can occur.
The result is so amazing that this technique is being used in courtrooms, where in one session, they settle complicated family cases that would take years to resolve with a lot of anger and pain involved.
general information
I Usually offer Family Constellation inside the Coaching program (4, 8, or 12 sessions), as a tool to go deeper and bring some information from the unconscious.
However, if you want to do just one session please get in touch by email.
Usually one session is enough, but you can repeat it int the future if you feel you have more things you want to clarify.
In one session conflicts are worked on and closures are verbalized out loud. From then on, it is necessary to give the morphogenetic field time for the cure to be completed for everyone involved, including those who don’t know about the process. They will only notice the positive results.
When you buy a Coaching Package, you can choose a session of Family Constellation. Fees for an individual Constellation sessions is CAD $150. Special fees for groups.
How our sessions are done
Each session can last from 40 to 90 minutes, reason why I schedule 90 minute sessions so we have enough time to explore all information that arrives.
Family Constellation is not only indicated for those who have problems with family members, but also for discovering hidden and unconscious ties when you have something blocking your life and you don’t know what it is.
You just need to be in a quiet environment, without the presence of other people. The Constellation, when individual, must be private.
An important point is that you shouldn’t talk about your experience with anyone, because the work of the constellation is done in the energy field, and people that were not present can not apprehend the totality of the experience, by only hearing about it.
Besides not being able to grasp the whole of what happened, they will, even unintentionally, give an opinion, interfere, or make judgments, and that hinders the healing process.
In our Western culture, we often don’t value our elders and our ancestors, and this somehow takes us away from our roots. Conflicts, judgments and criticisms make the separation increasingly greater. When we understand our place in the family, everything harmonizes as if by magic.
And that’s what systemic constellation does: it gives us the path to heal our relationships.